So here is the back story to my problems that are literally sending my life into a hell hole.
I had met this cute girl and we had been on a couple of dates, hooked up a few times, ect ect. She really seemed into me and i was extremely happy a good turn of events came my way.
Last night we went to a toga dance, we drank a little bit of alcohol, but she is much more of a lightweight than me. First thing she does when we get there is bolt away from me to the dance doors since we didn't have to pay. I quickly follow suite and go inside after her. Not 10 minutes later did i find her dancing with other guys. I was crushed, defeated, brought down on my knees; i don't know how to describe this feeling besides those words.
I see some best friends and end up telling them my story. They told me to calm down, and said its not like she is hooking up with anyone. I end up going to the bathroom and bam she was hooking up with some guy in the ****ing stalls, she doesn't see me, but I see her. I end up going back to my car and drowning myself with Jack Daniels.
When I go home i just pass out on my bed basically brought down to the lowest I have ever been in all the years i have lived. Here i am now, just waking up and waiting to see how this day turns out.
Any advise/cheer up things?
Well, if you still want her go for it, it's not like you lost her because she hooked up with some random guy when she was drunk.
You got the upper hand most likely as you probably know her a bit more than this random who probably just was a one night stand anyway.
I almost made the mistake of not going after the girl of my dreams, I kept fighting, and I ended up being the good guy that gets the girl, so be the good guy, go after her, fight for her, show her that you want her, show her that she is a woman and that you are a man, tell her that she is was pushes you to rise up in the morning, to go through the day, tell her that she is the one and only thing that you would die for.
So if you want to blame yourself do it, or if you actually want her, call her, meet her, date her, tea-bag her, tie her up, whatever floats your boat.
Last edited by Ph3noM; 01-15-2011 at 01:55 PM.
You shouldn't be chasing girls, they should be chasing you. You have 1700+ PSR and attend toga parties, this is my mind makes you a PLAYER. So either be the man and seduce her with some OTT romantic/creepy gesture or cut your losses.
Well you don't have to do that, but that doesn't mean all is lost. Put yourself in her position, would you have passed up an opportunity if some smoking toga girl started hitting on you? Maybe, maybe not, but even if the latter is the case you'd be tempted. She's got urges, powerful woman urges, and urges need satisfying. Take the initiative, know that you're the man, and not just a man, a bad as mother ****er.
Now drop and give me 20.
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How is she a whore? It sounds like she feels bad for the guy, so she was taking him out to have some fun. I think leaving you immediately is kinda stupid, but I mean she DID have drinks with you.
Are you physically attractive? Did you foot the bill? What car do you drive? Because sadly hotness in a city is generally proportional to shallowness. I read and you said, cute... sucks for you bro. =P
Don't call her back.. please tell me you haven't called /texted her?
what does "hooking up" actually entail?
also drop and give me 20
no seriously do it
I just did 20, hooking up meaning got the D sucked.
And i haven't called her or begged her back cause i am a man, man.
1700+ psr and attends toga parties is the best quote of the century.
I drive a 2010 tahoe hybrid
I don't think you'd want a girl like that, they're only good for sex.
(And before someone gives me the 'respect women' speech, I'm talking about a type of girl that acts that certain way, not women in general)
"Honestly I think the reason we all get so upset over this game is BECAUSE of how much we love it." -PieRowManSir
So she danced with some other guys and you overreacted like a beta phaggot?...
Am I missing something?
Girl, you talk too much
Keep it on the down low
be aware that there are indeed women who will use and abuse you for drinks and a drive to where they wanna go and proceed to neglect you entirely once you've arrived at the club, the party, etc.
don't be stupid. tell that ***** to **** off.
next time make sure your next date out sticks to you like glue the entire time, and insist upon it. make her your *****...
of course this is only the course of action you would take if you expect her to act similarly to how this one did to you.
each girl has her own style - it's up to you to find wtf they are up to and do it before u buy them drinks and drive them around for free.
tl;dr: you got used
meh, be happy she did this now rather then 6 months into a relationship.
Hooking up is such a vague term.
A lot of girls out there though are incredibly deceptive and self-centered. It's up to you to realize this and make the right move.
It's kinda sad but hilarious at the same time watching some of my friends get their balls squeezed by their gfs. Those people who can't control their gfs at all, I pity them as people will walk all over them in life, and unfortunately for them there are people like me that know how to take advantage of their situation.
There are a lot of puppets in this world, don't be one, Alpha male personalities basically enjoy the most success in life.